Archive for February, 2008

What I’m Reading - 2/22/08

Friday, February 22nd, 2008

Books Books Books!

I know that I’m always looking for good books to read and I really like to get a few recommendations before I pour 10 or 15 hours into something that may or may not turn out to be a huge waste of my time. That being said, I’d like to offer some recommendations in the form of my current reading list.

1. The Sales Bible by Jeffrey Gitomer

The Sales Bible Gitomer, a former salesman who is now a consultant and journalist, shares his tips on how to be a successful salesperson. He provides motivational advice and practical techniques for initiating, maintaining, and closing a sales presentation. Written in a breezy manner with short, easy-to-remember suggestions, this book should prove popular with persons just getting started in this field or those needing an inspirational pep talk. I, for one, think this is one of the most practical books on sales that I have ever read.

2. How Full Is Your Bucket? by Tom Rath & Donald O. Clifton

How Full Is Your Bucket? I read this one in a single sitting during a recent business trip in which I had about 2 hours to kill. It happened to be -3 degrees, so I decided to hunker down in Borders. Once I started reading, I couldn’t put it down. It’s not a terribly long book, but it’s filled with the positive idea of give-and-take that will lead to a better marriage, better relationships both professionally and privately, and easier life, and more satisfaction for everyone involved. I say it is very worth your time to pick this one up.

3. Eiger Dreams: Ventures Among Men and Mountains by Jon Krakauer

Eiger Dreams Written by Jon Krakauer of “Into Thin Air” fame writes of the harrowing events of some 15 of the worlds best mountain climbers as they take on the worlds tallest peaks. Not once in this book will you be bored or hoping to get a chapter over with. Halfway through you will acquire a new appreciation for your fingers, toes, and the fact that you still have a nose, because many of the main characters lose theirs. This is the ultimate for the Armchair Adventurer, because you feel like you’re right there with them. Luckily, you’re not.

The Benefits of Reading

I have always heard that where you will be in 5 years is based upon the books you read and people you associate with, so grab these books enhance your life!

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20 Ways I Blow My Budget

Thursday, February 21st, 2008

1. Ordering Appetizer and Entre’ - I never finish them and they just make me fat and uncomfortably full.

2. Drinking Out - It’s fun to go out with friends, but so so not worth it right now. I can have some friends over and talk them into bringing the beer because its MY house.

3. Going To Movies - $10 a ticket! This is getting ridiculous! There’s no excuse for that when we have a dollar theater down the road.

4. Cable TV - But man I love me some American Idol! And I got a good deal from Direct TV.

5. Clothes - I tend to rip holes in just about ever piece of clothing I ever own. Done it ever since I was a kid…I don’t know what the heck happens.

6. Having Debt - Oh! But not for long! It’s been a good thing that I had the available credit when starting a business, but it starts to get to you before too long.

7. Bottled Water - I really really really like water. Always have, Always will. I just don’t like tap water. luckily, I just bought a really nice water purifier, so that expense should stop.

8. Starbucks - This would be the one and only way my wife blows the budget. She really is very good with money, but LOVES some coffee.

9. Text Messaging - Somehow I get to the end of the month and I’m like “WHAT? How did I send 1200 text messages??”

10. Gas - My wife has a bit of a Gas Guzzler, and her car is better than mine so we always take it places. Plus, it has about 80K less miles on it.

11. The Expensive Dog Food - Turns out, unless your pup is in a dog show, the difference will be unnoticeable and expensive.

11. The Expensive Shampoo - Same reason…you’re not going to enter a dog show, are you?

13. Buying Books - the library is always free! and if you can’t find it there, there’s always BooksPrice.com.

14. Ordering Coke or Beer at Restaurants - A Coke is like $2.50 now! Beers are worse, but I have this place called

15. The Carwash - I would wash my car at home, but I live in Georgia and there’s practically NO water. So it’s illegal to wash my car and my only options are to have a dirty dirty car or to go pay to have washed somewhere that recycles and reuses their water.

16. “Wasting Time” Shopping - Or shopping for fun. This used to be a favorite pastime for my wife and I. We would go to the mall or Target or PetSmart and blow cash.

17. Starbucks - I don’t drink coffee and for some reason, the idea of $4 for a little cup is ridiculous to me.

18. Overdraft Fees - Oh Boy! One time, a check cleared about 2 days before it normally does, and I used me debit card 10 TIMES! That’s $350 in overdraft fees.

19. Amazon.com - This is the same as shopping for fun for me. I like to know what new books and gadget are out there. I’ll see something cool and add it to my cart just to see how much it would all cost…then I talk myself into buying it all.

20. Cigars - I ran a cigar shop for about a year and I really do love to sit on my back porch with a cigar and a beer to wind down or hang out with buddies. Nothing beats it, and really not ALL THAT expensive for hours of enjoyment and socializing.

What is your ONE BIG expense that seems to get you all the time? What is your Budget Buster?

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The 10 Worst Pieces of Financial Advice

Wednesday, February 20th, 2008

Over my fews years in this world, I have gotten some pretty lousy advice from some pretty competent people. When you hear things from people like a “financial adviser” you assume it is the best financial decision. You hear it from your parents, your siblings, your friends. You hear it from your golf buddies, your cab driver, and the waiter. It’s Bad Advice, and here are the Top 10 Worst Pieces of Financial Advice you will ever get.

1. Get Whole Life Insurance

The idea here is that you get health insurance and you get part of your premium as the “cash value” portion of your insurance. You can then draw on that cash in the event of an emergency. With this option your premium will be about 80% more than if you chose Term Life. Oh yeah, that “cash value” is all but gone when you die if you take into account the huge taxes and the insurance company’s cut.

Why, you ask, would anyone try to talk you into such a terrible investment? It’s because your insurance guy is a salesman. He gets a commission on your premium so the higher the premium, the more money he makes.

2 & 3. Use Debt or Don’t Use Debt

These could both be good and bad advice depending on who is giving it, who is taking it, and in what sense they mean. Many people have very little self discipline and even the idea of a credit card puts them into debt. These people should subscribe to the Dave Ramsey philosophy of “Debt is Dumb, Cash is King, and the paid off home mortgage has taken the place of the BMW as the status symbol of choice.”

On the other hand, there are people who are very disciplined and have enough self control to take advantage of credit card offers and use them to their benefit. In this case, you can make a good bit of money using leverage as a tool.

4. Debt Consolidation

Can’t pay your bills? Why not refinance your house and roll your credit card debt into the house payment? You’ll have a lower interest payment and just one bill to worry about.

Here’s why you don’t want to do that…First of all, you clearly can’t control your spending so what is going to keep you from running those credit cards back up to where you can’t afford the payments again? Second, when your debt is on credit cards, the worst thing that can happen is you get a bad credit score. But if you can’t pay your mortgage payment, you lose your house and that is much much worse on your credit than some late credit card payments.

5. Save For Kid’s College First!

This is just silly. I’ve actually had people tell me to do this. Let’s say I’ve put lots and lots of money in a 529 college savings plan for my son. The son turns 18 and decides to take a trip to Africa for 6 months. He gets home and decides to join The National Guard. Now you’ve got a bunch of money tied up and you’ll have to take a huge tax hit in order to get it.

Save for your own retirement and when your kids get to college age, you’ll have the available funds to help should you choose to help and should they choose to attend school. p.s. people place value upon something based on what they pay for it. Give your kids school for free and see how much they value it.

6. Sign Up For Bi-Weekly Mortgage Payments

Bi-weekly mortgage payments can be a very good way to pay off your house early because when you send a half-payment every two weeks you end up sending 26 payments that amount to one extra monthly payment per year.

The problem comes when you go through a third party to set up the bi-weekly payments. They generally hit you with a $300 set up fee and some sort of yearly fee because they have been such a tremendous help with paying off your house. The fact of the matter is prepaying your mortgage can be a good things, but you can and should do it yourself. Contact your mortgage company directly with any questions.

7. Mortgage Life Insurance

This sounds like a good thing when you get the info in the mail because this is a way that your family can keep their house should the unthinkable happen. There are a couple of glaring problems with this.

First, your premium stays the same but your benefits decrease as you pay down the principle on your loan. If you own $100K, they’ll pay off $100K. If you owe $50K, that’s what they’ll pay off.

Second, this is not really a policy to protect your family, but to protect the bank! They would MUCH rather have you pay than to default. If you would like your family protected in the event of your death, get yourself some Term-Life Insurance from Zander Insurance. You’ll have very low premium and the benefits can be used for anything you’d like, including house payments.

8. Claim Zero on Your W-4 To Get a Tax Refund

Congratulations! You’ve just loaned money to the government Interest-Free for a year! If you know the amount of refund you got this year, adjust your withholdings down so that you can keep more of your paycheck. Then, put that money right into savings, investments, or debt reduction and you’ll come out ahead without earning any more money!

9. Let a Professional Do It - No Need To Know Anything

I am a big fan of having advisers, mentors, and resources, but to turn your financial future over to someone else completely is a bit irresponsible. Many financial advisers are upstanding people with your best interest at heart, but many are also in it for nothing but the commission and they will think of their wallet before yours every time.

I suggest taking an active interest in your money, as I’m sure you already have if you’re reading this. If you do, you’ll see your net worth grow faster than ever!

10. The Stock Market is The Only Way To Go

Thomas Stanley in The Millionaire Mind talks about the millionaires’ take on this subject. Only 12% said that “investing in the equities of public corporations” was a factor in their success. A much larger percentage said that “investing in my own business” and “making wise investments” were factors in their success.

More often than not, the millionaires in this country opt for private investments in properties and companies, including their own.

My Goal

Over the coming months, I hope to bring you some of the best advice on personal finance as well as ways to increase your income both on and off line. Maybe we can make lots of money together!

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The Birth of a Blog

Monday, February 4th, 2008

There I was. 22 years old, married and living in the city, making over $100,000 per year. Life was good. Ya know what I decided to do? Work For Myself. That was simultaneously the best and worst decision of my life. For starters, I found out that my wife was pregnant the day after I quit my job! Luckily my wife is fantastic and she supports me 100%

I had decided to start a manufacturer’s rep company with my father and I knew that I would have a a few months of less money, but I didn’t quite know all the trouble I had just bargained for. I went from over $8K per month to under $2K immediately. I went from zero debt and $1000’s in savings to overdraft fees and $15K in debt in a matter of months. On top of that, we bought a house out of necessity because I was working from home, and with a baby on the way, we would need something bigger than our 1 bedroom apartment.

We moved out into the suburbs to start our family, grow out business, and learn from our mistakes. I have been motivated to start this site by many others online and I want to give them the appropriate credit.

1. MyMoneyBlog.com has been a great resource with the Free $100 Bonuses For Credit Cards and the Rough Guide To Money And Investing, not to mention the daily post about the one thing everyone thinks about…Money.

2. JohnChow is a great writer and he covers everything from dinners out on the town to trade show antics. My favorite of his posts would most certainly be How To Incorporate Your Blog and Income Tax Tips.

3. TheSimpleDollar.com has been very encouraging and reassuring as Trent Hamm went through what he calls a “complete financial meltdown” about a year and a half before I did. His site has been a great influence, especially with his 31 Days to Fix Your Finances.

This blog will cover many of the lessons I’ve learned and and troubles we’ve faced as a result of our poor financial decisions and lack of preparation. You can watch us go from debt to wealth and failure to success. Hopefully you can learn from our mistakes!

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